To all of you single guys out there, we understand your struggle. We’re talking about the struggle of finding a special girl to date, not one of the Instagram hoes or the club rats that are light weight alcoholics. We understand you spend most of your time at work, so you practically have no free time to dedicate to meet someone you want to start pursuing. All a single man wants at the end of the day is a great girl to come home to, to spend time with, to experience life with. That’s where we come in; we can give you the tools to find these women despite how busy you are or how much you’ve given up on finding someone special.
1. Get online.
Every single man needs to utilize dating sites and dating apps to find the perfect woman for him. Getting online opens up the world of dating to whole new limits (or lack thereof). There are literally millions of singles out there, so why limit yourself to the people you see every day? Some people assume that all dating apps are sleazy, and all dating sites are cheesy. This is far from the truth! There are tons of dating apps out there that fights the standard sleazy vibe and instead are classy, mature, and are perfect for finding someone special. A few examples are apps like The League and Bumble. The League hand picks who can use their app versus who cannot, so they’re only allowing high-quality people to join. They look for classy, intelligent people who are serious about finding a relationship. And Bumble is pretty cool too, their whole thing is that only women can reach out to men, not the other way around. This way, when a woman reaches out to you, it’s guaranteed that she’s into you. It basically skips a step!
2. Utilize your connections.
Who knows you better than your friends, family, and maybe even co-workers? Probably no one. So use these people to find the perfect person for you. What do we mean by this? Ask them if them if they know of any single women that you would be interested in! Let them know that you want to get back in the dating game and tell them to keep you in mind to set you up with people. You’re probably thinking this sounds desperate, right? You’re wrong; it’s more charming than anything! And who knows, you could be missing out on meeting your best friend’s gorgeous single sister in law, or your coworker’s single best friend that’s perfect for you! Basically, you won’t know unless you ask, and are you going to rob yourself of meeting someone special because you have too much pride to ask for help?
3. Put yourself out there.
I bet you can think of 20 times that you’ve been in a store, at a restaurant, or even at church and thought a woman was beautiful. Well, instead of not doing about it, you should be a single man with some confidence and walk up and introduce yourself. What do you have to lose?! Worst case scenario she’ll make it known that she isn’t interested, and then you’re left in the same place you started. No love lost, no love found right? You need to start facing the opportunities that are right in front of you, because if you don’t, you’re missing out on a lot of potentials. And if she shuts you down, you can’t get discouraged. There are tons of single women out there who are looking for a single